¿What difference does a year make? This is a question
that does not, in fact, have a straightforward answer. First, this question has
a contextual dimension, that is, what role does this year play in the context
of my own life up to this moment.
That said, in defining this year, the word ‘crossroads’
springs to mind. Even if it has yet to end, I would place as a critical moment in
my life, a transitional state. In one hand it is full of open roads and
opportunities, and at the same time, doors close and processes end.
In a way I’ve grown used to the guidance both my
family and my house of studies have provided. As such, the degrees of freedom I’m
presented with now that I’m ending my undergraduate come with mixed sentiments
of excitement and intimidation.
Just as important as the broad context, are the
events. Starting in a positive light, the experience of my sister in becoming a
mother has been an event that has brought my family closer than ever, as we’ve
all participated in the upbringing of my niece. In the matter of academic life,
my involvement in fieldwork (mainly in the north of Chile) has been an
enlightening experience, giving me both perspective and appreciation of the world
in terms of cultural diversity.
Now from the point of not-so-good experiences,
there are some that I’d prefer to keep private in term of details, only saying
that they have to do with the passing of time, and the growing distancing between
me and many of my close friendships. In this last case, I could have
reestablished contact, realizing too late that the opportunity was no longer
there.
Lastly, in describing the year in terms of prospects,
I’d say it appears quite good. First, my older sister is coming back from a
very long absence (she lived abroad for years), this time to stay indefinitely.
Secondly, I’ve been offered some very interesting lines of academic work, and
the opportunity to travel and be immersed projects concerning archaeologic
studies from central and northern Chile.
All in all, I could say that this has been a
hectic year that has yet to end. Who knows what the near future has in store
for me. After all, it’s only October, and as the weather is beginning to change,
I too may change as well.
You have to enjoy your family is the only thing that you have forever :)
ResponderEliminarIn my case, I have seen how time can weaken really strong friendships, but I have seen also how, along time, I had the opportunity to meet great people. Although I have not too much friends right now (actually, they are not more than two or three), these friends are invaluable for me.
ResponderEliminarI have some cabals about weather. I think that the most beautiful things happen to me at autumn and winter, spring and summer are just procrastination time
ResponderEliminarwho are you cuchufli?
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